Libra Man Using You: 10 Clear Signs You’re Being Used!

A Libra man can show specific signs when he is using you. If you understand his personality, you’ll know the clues he is not serious about a relationship.

He may call you to get together when he’s attracted to you. But if he only wants to go out at night, you may be a Libra man’s side chick.

A Libra man usually spends time running errands with you. He introduces you to his friends. A serious Libra man doesn’t hide you from the public.

1. He Only Sees You at Night

A Libra man may be using you if he is not interested in seeing you during the day. If he doesn’t go out with you and enjoy platonic dates, it’s a red flag.

A Libra man who only wants to see you when sex is involved, you can assume he is not interested in a romantic relationship. Men born under this sign want to be with you constantly when in love.

But if a Libra man is picky about when he sees you, he can be selective because he only wants sex. He is using you if he only shows up when he wants intimacy.

When a Libra man is only interested in seeing you at night, he isn’t making you part of his life. He is keeping you on standby for sexual connection if he only wants a casual relationship.

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2. You Don’t Know His Friends

If you’ve been dating a Libra man for months and you’ve never met his friends, it’s a red flag. Men born under this sign can be social and want to incorporate their love interest with their friends.

When a Libra man cares about you, he wants to bring you into his social circle. Men born under this sign don’t separate their romantic interests from their friends.

But if your Libra man hasn’t introduced you to any of his friends despite being in your life for months, you can tell he is uninterested in you. A Libra man may only want sex if he keeps you apart from his friends.

Will a Libra man use you? Men born under this sign are eager to fall in love. But they also don’t like being alone. While a Libra is waiting to find his ideal match, he may use you for companionship or sex.

What are Libra men attracted to? They typically want to be with women who align with their ideals and get along with their friends. If he doesn’t include you, he is likely using you.

3. He Doesn’t Text First

A Libra man doesn’t text you first if he is using you. He waits until you reach out to him and takes a passive approach to the relationship. If a Libra man doesn’t invest energy in the relationship, he’s not serious about you.

A Libra man using you waits to text you. He talks to other women first and replies to your texts when nothing else is going on. He acts indifferent and doesn’t initiate contact.

When a Libra man never suggests date ideas and doesn’t ask you out, he is uninterested in a relationship. Libra men can be shy, but a man born under this sign doesn’t contact you first when using you.

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4. He’s Only Into Sex

A Libra man using you only shows up when interested in sex. If he ignores you when you aren’t in the mood for sex, he is using you. Libra men show when they are serious about a relationship.

Libra men can be indifferent to you and only stop by for playful sexual encounters when using you. If a Libra is not serious about his relationship with you, he may ignore you when sex is not an option.

Men born under the sign of Libra can be amorous. They are sensual and can be open to casual relationships. But if a Libra man wants a long-term romance with you, he shows an interest in more than sex.

One of the signs a Libra man just wants to be friends is when he only wants a sexual relationship. You can’t make him fall in love if he is using you.

5. He Doesn’t Give Gifts

Wondering how to know if a Libra man is serious about you? A Libra man not interested in a romantic relationship with you doesn’t give gifts. Men born under this sign can be materialistic when in love.

If he doesn’t surprise you with love tokens, he may be using you. A Libra man who wants to be with you shows you he cares by giving flowers and buying jewelry.

When a Libra man treats you to gifts, he is showing you he takes the relationship seriously. But if he is casually interested or using you for sexual encounters, a Libra man doesn’t spend on you.

One of the signs a Libra man has a crush on you is when he gives you gifts whenever he sees you. He shows you he cares by being generous.

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6. He Doesn’t Compliment You

A Libra man who doesn’t compliment you may be using you. He shows he is not serious about a relationship by keeping the conversation friendly but impersonal.

When a Libra man loves you, he flatters you constantly. He compliments you and builds up your self-esteem. Libra men can be eager to put you on a pedestal.

A Libra man who cares about you wants to build up your confidence. Men born under this sign can be kind and compassionate when they like you. One of the signs a Libra man is obsessed with you is when he gives gifts.

But a Libra man who doesn’t want to be with you can show he is using you by avoiding such compliments. If a Libra man never has good things to say about you, he may be using you.

7. He Acts Bored

A Libra man acts bored when using you. He can be detached and seems distant when he doesn’t want a serious relationship. If he’s using you, your Libra man seems disinterested in you.

He doesn’t listen when you talk about the things you care about. A Libra man who is using you can seem detached when you are passionate about him.

Libra men can seem aloof and bored when they are using you. They only pay attention to sexual attraction. Men born under this sign can be apathetic to your interests when they are not serious about you.

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8. You Chase Him

If you want to know if a Libra man is using you, pay attention to your behavior. If you have to chase him to get his attention, it’s a bad sign. He is probably using you.

A Libra man wants balance and harmony in his relationships. If serious about you, a Libra man meets you halfway. But if you always feel compelled to chase him, something is wrong.

A Libra man who doesn’t follow up with you or ignores your texts until you send several follow-ups is doing the bare minimum. He doesn’t want to be with you but is being polite. Don’t chase a Libra man if he isn’t forthright.

9. He Runs Hot & Cold

Libra men run hot and cold for various reasons. But if a Libra man continually stays on an emotional rollercoaster he may be using you. He may be passionate in bed but then ignores you.

If a Libra man gives you mixed signals and never finds balance, he is using you. He is uninterested in romance if he runs hot and cold. Your Libra love may remain beyond your reach.

When a Libra man wants to be with you, he eventually finds the confidence to be consistent. But if a Libra man seems to never settle down, he is using you.

A Libra man flirting with you can be sending signals he is interested in you. When a Libra man gives signals he likes you, he may be shy about opening up.

But if a Libra man is using you, he runs hot and cold based on when you are sexually available. Libra men can be distant and inconsistent when they are using you.

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10. He Doesn’t Spend Money

Libra men have no problem taking out their wallets when they want to impress you. But if a Libra man is using you, he doesn’t spend money on you. He keeps dates minimal and focuses on sex.

Libra men are not passionate about you if they don’t spend money trying to pamper you. Men born under this sign can be materialistic. When in love, a Libra man shows you by showering you with expensive gifts.

He takes you to upscale venues on romantic dates. But when a Libra man is cheap or doesn’t pay for your meal, he may be using you. A Libra man who doesn’t spend money on you is not serious.

When a Libra man is done with you he stops taking you on expensive dates. He shuts down and can be frugal. He avoids investing in you and may not take you out anymore.