Scorpio Man Upset: Navigating His Anger & Frustration!

Scorpio men are intensely emotional people, but they don’t always know how to handle these emotions. Some will hide completely when upset, while others will lash out.

If you’ve done something to upset your Scorpio man, apologize to him. Offer support and listen to him if he needs to vent. Also, understand that he can hold grudges, regardless of whether you apologize.

A Scorpio man will take a while to calm down. He might be argumentative and on edge until he does, too. Encourage him to open up and accept your support instead of hiding.

He Can Be Stubborn

How does a Scorpio man act when sad? When a Scorpio man is upset, he might become extra stubborn. He may be stubborn about expressing his emotions at all!

If your Scorpio man seems more stubborn than usual, he might be upset about something. If you notice that he’s doubling down when he usually talks things through and compromises, take a step back and see if something is wrong.

If a Scorpio man is upset about something he can’t control, he’ll try to control other things. Something as simple as picking a movie or choosing where you have dinner will seem like a huge deal to him.

Your Scorpio man might stubbornly insist that nothing is wrong, even when it’s clear he’s upset. If he does this, just be patient. Encourage him to open up, but don’t push too much.

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He’ll Give the Silent Treatment

How does a Scorpio man express his feelings? A Scorpio man will not always openly express how he feels. Some Scorpio men will be direct, but others will be passive-aggressive.

If a Scorpio man is upset with you, he might give you the silent treatment. He won’t always directly confront you and tell you something is wrong. He’ll ignore you.

A Scorpio man might give the silent treatment if you’ve been ignoring him or if you do something to make him angry or sad. If you hurt his feelings, he might sulk and avoid you instead of saying something is wrong.

If a Scorpio man is giving you the silent treatment, encourage him to talk to you about what’s wrong. Be willing to apologize when you upset him, but tell him that you need to know what the problem is first.

He’ll Expect an Apology If You Upset Him

Are Scorpio men sensitive? They are, even though they try to hide it. A Scorpio man is as emotional and sensitive as any other water sign.

If you upset a Scorpio man, he will expect an apology. If you do something to hurt his feelings or make him angry, you must say sorry before you two can move on from the issue.

A Scorpio man won’t always tell you he expects an apology. He might not even tell you he’s upset in the first place! It can be tricky navigating him and his emotions sometimes.

If your Scorpio man seems upset and you know you said something insensitive, apologize. If you argued, apologize for that. If you genuinely have no idea what is wrong, talk to him and encourage him to tell you what the problem is.

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He Can Hold Grudges

An upset Scorpio man is likely to hold a grudge. He doesn’t always completely get over something he’s upset about, even if it’s been months or years.

If you apologize and work through something with your Scorpio man, he might forgive you. He won’t hold a grudge over every little thing if you clear the air. He will hold grudges about minor offenses if you don’t apologize!

If you hurt a Scorpio man’s feelings, apologize. If you say something insensitive, talk to him about it even if he doesn’t say anything. He’ll bring it up later during an argument if you don’t say sorry.

When a Scorpio man is done with you for good because he can’t forgive something you’ve done, he’ll typically let you know. If he’s holding a petty grudge, talk to him. You two will be able to work through it if you communicate.

He Might Become Argumentative

A Scorpio man might become argumentative when he’s upset. He might express that with anger even if he’s sad or scared. He might start to pick fights for seemingly no reason.

If you want to know how to handle an angry Scorpio man, try remaining calm. If he becomes argumentative or combative, don’t take the bait. That will make things worse.

Be patient if your Scorpio man seems to be picking fights. He might be upset, even if he’s not telling you why. Stay calm and get to the bottom of what’s happening.

Be compassionate instead of fighting with your Scorpio man when he’s being argumentative. Encourage him to open up. Ask him if something is going on to make him act this way because something is likely upsetting him.

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He’ll Need Support

A Scorpio man with hurt feelings will likely need support from loved ones. If he’s sad, anxious, or scared, he might need comfort and reassurance from those who care about him.

A Scorpio man won’t always ask for support, though. He might be too prideful. He might feel like he’s bothering people if he asks for help. He sometimes needs a little push when it comes to seeking support.

If your Scorpio man seems upset, reach out to him. Tell him that you’re there for him if he needs to talk. Offer to listen to him, at the very least.

Sometimes, a Scorpio man will need support through advice or assistance working through a problem. He also might need a shoulder to cry on. Regardless of his needs, try to be there for him.

He Might Need to Vent

Sometimes, when a Scorpio man is angry or upset, he needs to vent to work through his emotions. You might not always be able to give advice or fix a problem, and he might not want you to anyway.

If a Scorpio man is upset about something out of his control, he’ll need to vent. If you’re not the one he’s upset with, you can help by just listening to him and letting him work through his emotions.

Venting can be a healthy way to work through anger, sadness, and other emotions. Venting to a friend when he’s angry can help a Scorpio man calm down and have a better conversation with whoever upset him.

If your Scorpio man wants to vent, listen! Don’t offer advice or judge his emotions. Let him work through his feelings and be a shoulder to cry on, but nothing more.

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His Emotions Are Intense

Are Scorpio men emotional? They are! Even if a Scorpio man tries to seem aloof, he’s one of the most emotional people you will ever meet.

Scorpio men feel their emotions strongly. They are intense and sometimes difficult to handle. A Scorpio man can sometimes hide his feelings but can’t always control them completely.

It takes a long time for a Scorpio man to learn how to handle his intense emotions. He needs to learn how to deal with them healthily and express them openly without lashing out or making his feelings everyone else’s problem.

He Might Try to Hide How Upset He is

Sometimes, when a Scorpio man is mad, sad, or feeling another “negative” emotion, he will try to hide it. A Scorpio man won’t always openly express his feelings. He may ignore them and try to keep others from seeing them instead.

Scorpio men are better at hiding their emotions than their fellow water signs, Cancer and Pisces. They don’t wear their hearts on their sleeves quite as much, especially around strangers.

Your Scorpio man might still hide how upset he is even if you are friends. If he’s worried about bothering you or being a burden when he’s sad, he’ll pretend everything is okay.

He likely won’t be able to hide forever, though. If a Scorpio man bottles things up too much, he’s likely to explode. Encourage him to talk to you if it seems like something might be wrong.

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He’ll Take a While to Calm Down

How long does a Scorpio man stay mad? Your Scorpio man will likely take a while to calm down when upset. If he’s upset over something minor, it will still take time to regain his composure.

How long a Scorpio man takes to calm down will depend on why he’s upset. If he’s good at hiding his emotions, he might seem calm before he actually is, so keep that in mind!

Your Scorpio man will probably take a while to calm down after a fight. If you say something to upset him, he’ll need time to get over it. Even after you apologize, he might still be upset for a while.

Don’t rush your Scorpio man or brush aside his emotions. He will try to calm down and work through things, but that can take time. Don’t force the issue or judge him for still being upset.