Scorpio Man Not Interested: 10 Signs He’s Not Into You!

If a Scorpio man is not interested in you, he might be rude. A Scorpio man who isn’t interested romantically but wants to be friends will be kind, but a Scorpio man who doesn’t like you will not.

Your Scorpio man won’t listen to you when he’s not interested. He will avoid you in public and ignore your messages. He will always brush you off and won’t want to talk to you.

A Scorpio man who doesn’t like you won’t care about your feelings. He’ll flirt with others in front of you, even if that makes you feel bad.

1. He Won’t Listen to You

One of the clear signs a Scorpio man is not interested is that he won’t listen to you. Scorpio men can be excellent listeners when they want to be, but a Scorpio man won’t listen to someone he has zero interest in.

You might notice that your Scorpio man always checks his phone when you’re talking or walks off to join a different group when you start conversing with the group he’s talking to.

You’ll also notice that even if he does seem to be listening, he doesn’t remember anything you’ve told him. A Scorpio man who isn’t interested in you won’t care what you say to him.

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2. He Avoids You in Public

Will a Scorpio man avoid you if he’s not interested? This is a common tactic he’ll use. He’ll ignore you if he isn’t interested and doesn’t want to lead you on.

There might be times when it’s difficult for a Scorpio man to avoid you altogether. You will see one another if you work together or have mutual friends. He won’t see you any more than he has to, though.

If your Scorpio man runs into you at a party, he won’t talk to you. If he’s not interested in you, he likely won’t even say hi if he sees you at the store or elsewhere in public.

If a Scorpio man seems to always go into another room the second you arrive somewhere, he’s not interested. He’s trying to avoid you, and you should let him be.

3. He Leaves Messages on Read

One of the signs a Scorpio man is not interested through text is that he will leave your messages on read. He uses this specific tactic to show that he’s angry at someone or doesn’t want to reply.

A Scorpio man who is busy and ignoring his phone won’t read your message in the first place but might see it and reply later. If he reads your message but doesn’t reply, that’s a response all by itself.

If your Scorpio man really doesn’t like you, he might block your number entirely.

If he’s not interested romantically but wants to remain cordial as coworkers or acquaintances, he might ignore any messages you send where you’re flirting or expressing interest.

If your Scorpio man reads your messages but doesn’t reply, he doesn’t want to. His lack of response indicates that he’s not interested in you and you need to back off.

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4. He’s Bored Around You

Another sign a Scorpio man isn’t interested is that he’s always bored when you’re around. If nothing you say or do interests him in the slightest, he probably doesn’t like you.

You’ll know your Scorpio man is bored because he won’t engage in conversation with you. He won’t ask follow-up questions when you discuss a topic you’re excited about. He might seem bored even if you’re talking about things he likes.

The best thing to do when a Scorpio man loses interest is to move on. You won’t regain his interest if he’s bored around you and continues to be bored no matter what you do. Just move on to someone else.

5. He Openly Flirts with Others

One of the signs a Scorpio man just wants to be friends is that he will openly flirt with others in front of you. If he has no romantic interest in you, he won’t care if you see him flirting with others.

If your Scorpio man seems nice to you but constantly flirts with other people when you’re around, he might want to be friends, but nothing more. If he never flirts with you but flirts with everyone else, he’s not interested.

A Scorpio man likely won’t care about making you jealous when he flirts with other people. If he doesn’t care about your feelings, he might not even consider that this might upset you.

If he does care about your feelings because you two are friends, he might not be so openly brazen about his flirtations, but he still won’t go out of his way to not flirt in front of you.

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6. He’s Rude to You

How does a Scorpio man act when he’s not interested? He might be friendly but distant if he still wants to be your friend. He’ll be rude to you if he doesn’t like you at all.

A Scorpio man might let you down harshly if you show interest in him. He might make a rude comment or joke about your flirtations instead of flirting back if you try to flirt.

Your Scorpio man might be overly direct when rejecting you. Sometimes, he’s trying to be rude. Other times, he’s just being too candid and doesn’t realize it’s coming across as hurtful.

Either way, a Scorpio man who isn’t interested won’t always let you down easily! If you’re his friend, he will. He won’t be nice if you’re just an acquaintance or someone he doesn’t particularly care about.

7. He Brushes You Off

If a Scorpio man is no longer interested in you, he will brush you off entirely when you try to approach or talk to him about anything.

A Scorpio man who was previously interested but has lost interest might brush off your concerns when you try to discuss his behavior. He won’t want to talk things through because he’s already decided he’s not interested.

If a Scorpio man who doesn’t like you is rude to you, and you call him out on it, he won’t bother defending himself. He won’t argue with you, apologize, or do anything to improve things. He’ll brush you aside and ignore the conversation.

A Scorpio man might seem incredibly apathetic when he’s not interested in you. He might not even be rude to you. He’ll want nothing to do with you.

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8. He Won’t Make Plans

If you want to know how to tell if a Scorpio man is interested or not, pay attention to whether or not he tries to make plans with you.

This is a great way to tell if a Scorpio man you’re casually dating just wants sex or if he’s interested in you. If he messages you to make plans outside of having sex, he’s likely interested.

If your Scorpio man never wants to make plans, he’s uninterested. He might casually spend time with you if you two have mutual friends, but he won’t go out of his way to spend one-on-one time with you.

9. He Doesn’t Care About Your Feelings

How do you know if a Scorpio man has lost interest in you? If he used to care about your feelings but no longer does, he’s lost interest. He no longer cares about you.

When a Scorpio man isn’t interested in you and doesn’t like you, he won’t care if his behavior upsets you. He won’t spare your feelings by continuing to talk to you if he doesn’t want to.

If something your Scorpio man does upsets you, and he brushes you off when you bring it up, he’s not interested. He might even be trying to upset you so you lose interest and leave him alone.

A Scorpio man who isn’t interested isn’t going to be polite for the sake of being polite. He won’t care if he says something insensitive or hurtful to you.

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10. He Never Reaches Out

If a Scorpio man is suddenly distant, that might be a sign he’s losing interest. There are many other reasons for his distance, but this is a possibility to consider.

If your Scorpio man never reaches out to you, he might not be interested. If he makes no effort to talk to or check in with you, it’s likely because he does not want to speak to you.

A Scorpio man temporarily failing to reach out could mean he’s busy. If you give him your number for the first time and he never follows up, he’s not interested. If he suddenly stops talking to you for weeks at a time, he’s lost interest.

If your Scorpio man never reaches out and fails to respond when you do, he’s not interested. You’re better off moving on because he likely won’t start talking to you anytime soon.